Blog - Dr. Behar-Courtois

The Quiet Power of “Standards” in a World Obsessed With “Values”

Most organizations love values. Values are clean. They look good on walls. They feel aspirational. Standards are less popular. Standards are specific. They feel enforceable. They force someone to disappoint someone else. Yet when I walk into organizations struggling with performance, the […]

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Coaching Becomes Real the Moment You Stop Trying to Be Liked

There’s a stage many leaders go through when they start coaching. They become more available. They ask more questions. They listen. They soften. And for a while, that alone improves relationships. People feel seen. The leader feels proud of their “new style.” […]

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The Most Expensive Sentence in Leadership Is “I Thought You Knew”

“I thought you knew.” It’s the sentence leaders say when accountability breaks down. It’s also the sentence employees say when trust breaks down. Everyone thinks the other side received the memo. Nobody can prove it. And everyone feels slightly betrayed. I’ve heard […]